Age: 46
female
Marielle Stiles Heller (born October 1, 1979) is an American director, screenwriter and actress. She is best known for directing the films The Diary of a Teenage Girl (2015), Can You Ever Forgive Me? (2018), and A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood (2019).
Pamela Ann Miller arrives in Los Angeles at the height of the late-1960s counterculture, where the Sunset Strip pulses with music, rebellion, and limitless possibility. Drawn into the city's electrifying rock scene, she becomes one of the GTOs - a free-spirited collective of young women whose lives intertwine with the era's biggest musicians and cultural icons. As Pamela moves effortlessly between backstage dressing rooms, recording studios, and legendary parties, she forms friendships and romances with some of the most celebrated figures of her generation, discovering both the intoxicating glamour and the hidden loneliness that exist behind fame. Her journey takes her far beyond California, from London's thriving rock scene to unforgettable adventures across France, Italy, and Austria, offering a front-row seat to a cultural revolution that would shape music history. Along the way, she serves as the live-in nanny for Frank Zappa's children, navigates high-profile relationships, and witnesses the triumphs and excesses of an extraordinary generation from a uniquely personal perspective. Yet beneath the whirlwind of celebrity encounters, Pamela searches for something more lasting than fleeting headlines and backstage passes. Everything changes when she meets English glam rocker Michael Des Barres. Their romance offers a chance to build a life grounded not in the chaos of rock-and-roll mythology, but in genuine partnership and love. As the decade draws to a close, Pamela realizes that her greatest adventure was never simply standing beside legends - it was discovering her own voice amid the noise. Equal parts nostalgic, heartfelt, and exhilarating, I'm with the Band is an intimate portrait of a woman who lived at the center of rock history and ultimately found that the most meaningful story was the one she created for herself.
